Should I marry a man with a great deal of debt?

If you do decide to marry him, you will then also marry his debt and it will fall onto you both to pay. As bad as this sounds, I would not want to incur that additional stress into a new marriage, it sounds like trouble in the making. I understand you desire to marry this man, and I also know that bad things happen to good people, but you are going to sacrifice so much. Evaluate this relationship and think with your mind and not your feelings. Good luck.